Blog Tips Tuesday

At least a few times a week, I see a blog post or tweet about bloggers working with brands.

Theses topics are often included in these discussions:

  • Should bloggers get paid to work with brands?
  • Are brands treating bloggers fairly or respectfully?

Since I’ve been reading so many others’ thoughts on these topics, I decided to share my own in hopes of encouraging you all to think about them and to start a dialogue here. (Note: These are just my opinions; nothing I say here is right or wrong).

Should Bloggers Get Paid When Partnering With Brands?

Many of us would immediately answer “yes” to this question, because after all, who doesn’t enjoy making money? When we see many well-known bloggers bringing in money from their partnerships with brands, it’s only normal for the rest of us to daydream and wonder when we too will profit from all of our hard work online.

But the truth is that not all bloggers will make money. The sea of blogging is a saturated body of water, so sometimes we have to be realistic about whether or not blogging will be profitable.  With that said, in order to start on the path to getting paid for your work, you need to consider a few things first.

  • Know Your Worth
    Many of the posts I’ve read recently have emphasized that you need to know your worth and set a precedent. If you don’t want to promote a company for free, then don’t. By doing so, you may only be setting the expectation that you will work for free again in the future. At the same time, just because you can charge doesn’t mean you should. You may not feel comfortable charging brands that want you to review their products even though you do charge for advertising on your blog. That’s alright. You set the rules when it comes to your worth.

  • Set Fees, But Back Up Why You Are Worth It
    Are you able to connect with a large audience online? Do you have a large subscriber rate or great stats? Does your writing captivate, inspire, or inform?

    In many cases, you are providing a service to brands, such as helping to increase their exposure online. If you feel your work is deserving of compensation, have a set of standard fees ready to inform any companies that inquire about working with you. This may include advertising rates, conference sponsorship opportunities, or other services, such as charging for product reviews. If you decide to do this, you’ll need to be prepared to show them what they will be getting in return for their investment, which only makes sense. Wouldn’t you want to know if your money was being put to good use or not?

Do Brands Treat Bloggers Fairly or Respectfully?

This ties into my first discussion point, but many are also talking about whether or not brands are respecting bloggers. You will get a variety of answers to this question depending on who you talk to, but here is my opinion: I think many brands DO get the whole concept of blogging and know how to effectively work with bloggers, but at the same time, many brands DON’T.

I’ve gotten emails from brands inquiring about me doing a product review that have begun with “Dear Blogger” or “Dear Cindy.” Who is Cindy? My name is Tamara! Unfortunately, I think many brands have become desensitized to bloggers since there are so many of us. If we say no, they often just move on to others. Or they’ve sent out a mass pitch to hundreds of us at one time, so we just become a number on a list somewhere. When a potential relationship with a brand begins with that kind of lack of respect, I immediately know it’s not a partnership I want. If brands expect us to craft our pitch so that it’s personalized to them, shouldn’t they be presenting their best foot initially, too?

While brands are still learning how to partner with bloggers in a manner that feels comfortable to us, we have to make sure to help them along with this task. As I stated before, this begins with valuing ourselves, our time, and our efforts. Research appropriate rates, know your stats and influence, and put your best foot forward at all times. We can’t blame all of the disrespect on brands if we aren’t respecting ourselves first.

Remember, we are moms, we are bloggers, and we most certainly can be effective business women!

Curious about what to charge for advertising or how to figure out your worth? Check out these articles by Jennifer James:
How Much Should Mom Bloggers Earn
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Advertising Rates For Mom Blogs: How Much Should I Charge?

Want to read more about the history and predicted future of blogger and brand partnerships? Read these articles by Jennifer James & Ciaran Blumenfeld (respectively):
Where I Believe Mom Blogging Is Headed
Brands Working With Bloggers

Let’s discuss.
What are your thoughts on the topic of working with brands
and knowing your worth?

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“No….I WON’T do that!”

“I want it NOW Mom!”

“I’m too busy to listen right now.”

Have you heard these statements before? From a two year old? Because these are the kinds of colorful words coming out of my oldest son’s mouth these days. While he will be three in May, he is channeling his inner teenager already.

I love doing posts on the ironic nature of parenthood and all that comes with it. I’ve done one on peer pressure. Another on my love/hate relationship with toddlerhood. And now I am writing about how two and three year olds are created to prepare you for adolescence. That has to be the case, otherwise, these years are just cruel jokes being played on us.

The whining alone is enough to make me want to don ear muffs and pretend I can’t hear anything he is saying. But when the content of his messages are “Mom, you’ve got to be kidding me if you think I am going to cooperate and not give you a hard time,” it sends me into a power struggle I often find myself becoming a victim of. Both an internal struggle with myself and an outward struggle with him usually ensues after these messages. I tell myself to just ignore the whining and words, yet I still try to reason with him. At some point in this process, I finally realize that trying to reason with a two year old is a bit ridiculous. As in, expecting-weight-to-just-melt-off-your-body-by-eating-chocolate ridiculous. It just doesn’t happen, especially when you are using long, lecturing-type sentences like I often catch myself doing.

I’m not here to offer you answers to the age-old question of “How do you make the whining stop?” Sure, as a therapist, I should have some tools to offer you; I know that this is just his way of showing his independence and testing the waters. But as a mom who is in the trenches of motherhood, just trying to navigate through it without her GPS, I am here to say, “You’re not alone.” Some days are better than others, while some seem almost unbearable. But the silver lining is that by making it through this tough age, I will have a tougher skin and better understanding of what lies ahead of me in about 12 years or so. Because sometimes I forget that my oldest is only 2.5 and is not yet a teen.

Does the whining get to you? Ever surprised by the sassy comments coming out of your child’s mouth?

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Moms Unite

by Tamara on March 7, 2010

in Blog Things, my community

You may already have seen that Elizabeth and I like to team up together as we recently began the Top 3 Thursday meme.

Well, we’re at it again…..together we created:

Our Mommyhood….Where Motherhood Meets Bloghood!

OurMommyhood.com

Come stop by and check out the neighborhood. You’ll see some familiar faces and some new. But it’s a site that’s sure to interest you!

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And don’t forget to check out my other new baby, Blog Conference Newbie to keep on top of all of your conference information and related-posts. Even if you’ve never been to a conference, you’ll learn a lot from those who’ve been.

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This week’s Featured Blog is:

Household 6 Diva Army Wife

Tell us a bit about yourself and your blog:

My name is Ann Marie and I call my blog Household 6 Diva.

Long ago when my husband and I were newlyweds, he started calling me “Household 6“, and it has been an ongoing joke ever since!

This is the story of my ongoing efforts to balance my life between being an Army Wife, Busy Mom to three small children, and remind myself IT IS OK to be a Diva sometimes!

My hubby, Seth, is a Soldier in the United States Army.And yes, the night we met, it was the handsome man in uniform that caught my eye!We have been married for almost 5 years and we have three beautiful children.Their names are Jacob (4 yrs), William (2 yrs), and Madeline (5 months). And no we didn’t plan the perfect 22 month spacing – the Army did!

I blog daily about my Cooking misadventures, learning Photography with my Nikon, and raising three children while moving around the world with the Army.

I hope you’ll stop by for a visit! I always love meeting new people!


What “Mommy Moment” do you want to share with my readers today?

“Stuck at Home or Stay at Home” which is a post about how sometimes as a stay-at-home-mom, we feel stuck.

Tamara’s note: We’ve all felt like this at one point. I even wrote a post about the “Stay-at-home-mom Syndrome” (in my sidebar under favorites). But I love that her post helps you get perspective on things!

Make sure to stop by Ann Marie’s blog to read more insightful posts.
Want to be a featured blog for a week? Let me know!

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Top 3 Thursday: Favorites About Spring

March 4, 2010

It’s Thursday again, which means Elizabeth and I are asking you for your Top 3 Things. Today’s topic is all about a season that I am sure we are all ready for…..SPRING!
In a separate post (to link up in the MckLinky) or in the comments section of this post, answer this question:

<a href=”http://www.theunexperiencedmom.com/” title=”Top [...]

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Moms Are Jacks of All Trades

March 3, 2010

If I were creating a business card for my job as a mom, I’d have to list the following titles as well: Social Director, Cook, Cleaning Lady, Chauffeur, Nurse/Safety Officer, and Chief Communicator of my family. Being a mom is not a simple task. If you think about the many hats moms wear, it’s no surprise many of us are dragging each day. Here’s a bit more about the roles I have as the mom of my family.Mother

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Filtering Our Thoughts in Blogging

March 2, 2010

If someone asks me what my blogging motto is, I’m ready with an answer:
Don’t get mad……Blog!
Free Therapy
Now, what do I mean by my motto? Simply stated, I believe that blogging can be a very therapeutic tool. A way to express yourself and your emotions, including anger. So when you’ve had a bad day or are [...]

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Girlfriends Are Better Than Chocolate

March 1, 2010

This past Friday, I went out with some of my girlfriends for a much needed MNO. Good conversation, fabulous treats, a cozy fireplace, and a night without the kids….a mom’s dream!
My friends and I tried a new local hot spot – a chocolate lounge. No, it wasn’t a place made entirely out of chocolate like [...]

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My Passion in 300 Words or Less

February 28, 2010

The following post is my entry into the Mabel’s Labels BlogHer ‘10 Contest. The winner receives a trip to BlogHer and a paid blogging gig. Since you all know I’m a determined gal, it’s no surprise I am entering!

Electrical storms are going to wipe out the Internet (perhaps forever). You have one day left to [...]

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Featured Blog: Stockpiling Mom

February 27, 2010

This week’s Mommy Moment Featured Blog is:

Tell us a little about yourself and your blog:
Melissa Jennings and Shelley King Steimer – are Stockpiling Moms.
Stockpiling Mom is a guide to frugal living.  Helping you save money to stretch your family budget!  We teach you how to strategically use coupons to build your stockpile and live a [...]

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